Friday, January 2, 2009

Used to be different – now it seems normal…

Just like buying fruit at the Farmer's Market!



When we arrived in Zambia, we were aware of so many things that were new and different, now they’ve become part of our everyday life and we hardly notice them!

Here’s what we’ve gotten used to:
1. 95% of the time we get in on the right side of the car to drive. The other 5% of the time, we just act like we meant to get in on the passenger side.


2. Seeing women walking on the street wearing orange housecoats with brooms slung over their shoulders and an orange cone on their heads no longer concerns us (they’re ladies hired to sweep the streets).


3. When we’re walking, we automatically step well off the road when we hear a car coming knowing the cars won’t move over an inch (even if there’s room on the road).


4. We know our way around our neighborhood


5. Peter has mastered the art of Zambian English – even if I say the same words, I don’t say them with the right intonation/accent – and people can’t understand me!


6. It’s now second nature to brush our teeth with bottled water and only drink bottled water (although it still kills me to have to pay for water in a restaurant).


7. We rinse our fruit and veggies in a bleach water solution before eating.


8. We mostly remember to turn on the “geezer” -- the hot water heaters that heat our shower water, kitchen water, etc.—otherwise, we’re stuck with cold water.


9. Sleeping under a mosquito net.


10. Love having Virginia (our housekeeper) – every day (ok not EVERY day – just Monday – Friday and half day on Saturday) our house is cleaned, dishes washed, clothing laundered and ironed – it’s such a stress reliever!


11. We’ve resigned ourselves to no recycling – although we do what we can, when we can.


12. We’ve gotten used to being called “Madame” and “Sir” by Virginia – not sure if she even knows our name!


13. We are grateful that English is the primary language - and that this is a predominantly Christian country.
14. Geckos running around our living room walls, bugs crawling on the floor are no longer huge gross- outs.


We continue to be amazed at:
1. The things people carry on their bikes: huge 50 pound bags of charcoal – not just one bag, but FIVE bags!, sofas, lumber, chickens – and our first sighting of a live goat tied on the back rack! (I’m pretty sure he knew his destiny).

2. How hard working the women are – everywhere you go, they are the ones out in the fields working, caring for children, working at the markets, etc.


3. Stop signs and stop lights don’t mean anything to some people – they just plow through the intersection.


4. The weather – sunny days, huge rain storms, thunder like we’ve never heard before…


5. How inefficient the service is – you have to pay all your bills in person, the internet is spotty (at best) and always very slow, you’ll wait forever in grocery store lines with no effort by the cashier to move faster, etc


6. How friendly people are – Zambians have great senses of humor!


7. Massage house calls: we just heard about a masseuse, Precious, who comes to the house... Peter decided to have a quick 10 minute rub down - and LOVED it!


We continue to be concerned for:
1. Poverty: nearly 73% of the Zambian people live on less than $1 a day with little access to a better life. For instance, there are two (always packed) malls in Lusaka, but only 2% of the people in Lusaka actually shop there.


2. AIDS: now that people are living longer with ARV (anti-retro viral) medicine, they are no longer struggling to survive because of their illness – now they need jobs to help them survive.


3. Education: many children in rural communities have very little access to education and so many teachers have died of AIDS...



4. Water: safe drinking water and access to water is still a huge concern for many people around the country. Water provides healthier lives and helps grow food...


Please continue to pray for the people of Zambia and the work that is being done here to support and care for them.

3 comments:

Sophie said...

hi this is sophie! just wanted to let you know i am on your blog reading it! interesting!

Louanne said...

Thanks for sharing all this. Miss you!

Beardemphl said...

Miyon,

Thanks for such great posts. We love reading about your life in Zambia. I actually caught a PBS special about Zambia the other night. Housekeepers and massueses.......I continue to be a little green with envy.....bugs and geckos...not so much!!

Kristy Beardemphl